T is for Training

I know to the Vanilla groups, training sounds archaic. But if you think about it, we train our bodies and minds in many ways - exercise, suduko, learning new skills. Really, that's all Submissive Training really is - learning a new skill. In this blog post, a woman decides to go to  The Disciplinarian in order … Continue reading T is for Training

Training her Ass – Finale

The intensive part of training Clara's has has been completed. After only one rebellion, Clara and I are both well pleased with the result. For her part, not only does she no longer fear anything anal, but eagerly looks forward to having her ass taken. If that's what it takes to keep my lady happy, … Continue reading Training her Ass – Finale

Q is for Quirt

"The falls on a quirt are made of leather, usually cow hide. The core of the quirt can be a leather bag filled with lead shot; the main part including the handle is often made from braided rawhide, leather, or kangaroo hide and is usually somewhat stiff but flexible." Originally, a quirt was used to help motivate a horse … Continue reading Q is for Quirt

Training her ass

Clara has always wanted to engage in anal sex, but has always been too frightened. Our goal is to overcome that fear and to train her ass so that we can both enjoy it whenever we (and by that I mean I) choose. To begin, Clara put herself on a high fiber diet about a … Continue reading Training her ass

O is for OTK

O was a rough decision to make - O-ring, Orgasm, Oral sex, Obedience, Owned. Still, OTK or Over The Knee, I believe, is at the heart of BDSM. There is simply nothing like the feeling of your dominant pulling you over his knees and swatting your bare ass with his bare hand. To feel his … Continue reading O is for OTK

First Reprimand of Summer

So as I mentioned the other day, I broke our first Summer Rules 2018 within hours of establishing them. I Said "Stop" and slapped away Milord's hand when he was tweaking my nipples. I didn't mean to. I didn't even think about it. I was washing dishes and didn't hear him come up behind me. When … Continue reading First Reprimand of Summer

M is for Mental Bondage

BDSM doesn't have to involve ropes, chains, and cuffs. Sometimes, just a word is enough. A long time ago I was mentally in a place where I simply could not stand even the sight of ropes, cuffs, or any other form of physical bondage. We worked our way back slowly. My husband, always creative, slowly … Continue reading M is for Mental Bondage

Summer Rules 2018

Milord loved last summer's rules and, for that matter, so did I. He suggested that this summer we continue with the same basic rules, with just a few little tweaks which I've marked. These rules actually began on Memorial Day and will go until September 21. No bra or underwear unless given specific permission, which … Continue reading Summer Rules 2018

Extended Time for breaking rules

Spring Rules 2018  You guessed it. I screwed up again. Really, it wasn't my fault this time. True, I was cutting it close coming home from my friend Josie's house, but how was I to know that construction the highway started yesterday and I'd be stuck in traffic for over 45 minutes. Sure, I told … Continue reading Extended Time for breaking rules

Snow White – 2

"That's my, Princess," he said. "Before we go, I think I deserve to be thanked." I sighed with pleasure and turned. He already had his cock out of his trousers and my mouth was open. He grabbed my chin, forcing me to look up at him. "Go as deep as you can, Snow, and wrap … Continue reading Snow White – 2