I am blind and deaf, made so by His command. I put in the ear buds and blindfold myself, upon His order and with my full consent. I do nothing I don't agree to, but I agree to follow His word. Tonight is a challenge. I cannot see or hear Him, yet I must follow … Continue reading Permission to Be
Month: July 2018
BDSM – A Sonnet-ish
(With apology to Elizabeth Barrett Browning) How do I adore you? Let me count the ways. I adore you from the brith of each morning to the death of each night. You fill the torn moments of pain with love's protective light, kneeling efore me, setting my hear ablaze by your pur devotion. I am … Continue reading BDSM – A Sonnet-ish
Disciplined
Ya gotta admit - I've been good this summer. So far. Until last weekend. We all know that at time I screw up just because something in me needs, desperately, to be disciplined. that's really the only explanation I have for what I did. My Summer Rules 201 8 are pretty basic and easy to follow, but … Continue reading Disciplined
Z is for Zipper
Zippers have long been in use for a quick - or slow - removal of clothing. In the BDSM world, however, a zipper is a series of clothes pins attached to a string of some kind. The pins are then clipped onto the skin and, by pulling the string, can be quickly - and painfully! … Continue reading Z is for Zipper
Y is for Yes
Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes
X is for Xenophilia
Xenophilia - one who is sexually excited by strangers. Hmmmm. Maybe this partially explains the allure of the one night stand bar hook-up. As with everything else, if this is your thing, use common sense as regards your safety. Better yet, let the "stranger" be unknown to you, but NOT to the arranger, possibly your … Continue reading X is for Xenophilia
W is for Wax Play
A slightly darkened room, candles on the table, a naked woman waiting for you. No, this is not the beginning of a Vanilla evening, but rather the beginning of a wax Play evening. Be warned!!! Wax play can be dangerous and leave SERIOUS BURNS. You DO NOT WANT THIS. If you are new to Wax … Continue reading W is for Wax Play
V is for Vanilla
Let's be honest, there's absolutely nothing wrong with vanilla. In fact, most people find the scent comforting and the flavor delightful. In the BDSM world, Vanilla is also perfectly fine. For us, though, it means sexual/romantic activity lacking kinkiness. No "Sirs", paddles, cuffs, hair pulling, blindfolds, or other accoutrements. It's holding hands, kissing gently, slow … Continue reading V is for Vanilla
U is for Uniform
By definition, a uniform is a distinctive type of clothing worn for the purpose of identification. Many people enjoy wearing uniforms for both BDSM/kinky purposes or in the course of their jobs. After all, who hasn't heard about the mythical "man in uniform" scenerio or the French Maid's uniform. Clothing says a lot about us. … Continue reading U is for Uniform
Anarie Brady 