Disciplined

Ya gotta admit - I've been good this summer. So far. Until last weekend. We all know that at time I screw up just because something in me needs, desperately, to be disciplined. that's really the only explanation I have for what I did. My Summer Rules 201 8 are pretty basic and easy to follow, but … Continue reading Disciplined

W is for Wax Play

A slightly darkened room, candles on the table, a naked woman waiting for you. No, this is not the beginning of a Vanilla evening, but rather the beginning of a wax Play evening. Be warned!!! Wax play can be dangerous and leave SERIOUS BURNS. You DO NOT WANT THIS. If you are new to Wax … Continue reading W is for Wax Play

U is for Uniform

By definition, a uniform is a distinctive type of clothing worn for the purpose of identification. Many people enjoy wearing uniforms for both BDSM/kinky purposes or in the course of their jobs. After all, who hasn't heard about the mythical "man in uniform" scenerio or the French Maid's uniform. Clothing says a lot about us. … Continue reading U is for Uniform

T is for Training

I know to the Vanilla groups, training sounds archaic. But if you think about it, we train our bodies and minds in many ways - exercise, suduko, learning new skills. Really, that's all Submissive Training really is - learning a new skill. In this blog post, a woman decides to go to  The Disciplinarian in order … Continue reading T is for Training

Training her Ass – Finale

The intensive part of training Clara's has has been completed. After only one rebellion, Clara and I are both well pleased with the result. For her part, not only does she no longer fear anything anal, but eagerly looks forward to having her ass taken. If that's what it takes to keep my lady happy, … Continue reading Training her Ass – Finale

Q is for Quirt

"The falls on a quirt are made of leather, usually cow hide. The core of the quirt can be a leather bag filled with lead shot; the main part including the handle is often made from braided rawhide, leather, or kangaroo hide and is usually somewhat stiff but flexible." Originally, a quirt was used to help motivate a horse … Continue reading Q is for Quirt

Training her ass

Clara has always wanted to engage in anal sex, but has always been too frightened. Our goal is to overcome that fear and to train her ass so that we can both enjoy it whenever we (and by that I mean I) choose. To begin, Clara put herself on a high fiber diet about a … Continue reading Training her ass

O is for OTK

O was a rough decision to make - O-ring, Orgasm, Oral sex, Obedience, Owned. Still, OTK or Over The Knee, I believe, is at the heart of BDSM. There is simply nothing like the feeling of your dominant pulling you over his knees and swatting your bare ass with his bare hand. To feel his … Continue reading O is for OTK

First Reprimand of Summer

So as I mentioned the other day, I broke our first Summer Rules 2018 within hours of establishing them. I Said "Stop" and slapped away Milord's hand when he was tweaking my nipples. I didn't mean to. I didn't even think about it. I was washing dishes and didn't hear him come up behind me. When … Continue reading First Reprimand of Summer

M is for Mental Bondage

BDSM doesn't have to involve ropes, chains, and cuffs. Sometimes, just a word is enough. A long time ago I was mentally in a place where I simply could not stand even the sight of ropes, cuffs, or any other form of physical bondage. We worked our way back slowly. My husband, always creative, slowly … Continue reading M is for Mental Bondage