I know to the Vanilla groups, training sounds archaic. But if you think about it, we train our bodies and minds in many ways - exercise, suduko, learning new skills. Really, that's all Submissive Training really is - learning a new skill. In this blog post, a woman decides to go to The Disciplinarian in order … Continue reading T is for Training
Anarie Brady
S is for submissive
I don't like when people, some even within the lifestyle, believe that a submissive is a weaker person, one whose purpose is to serve unconditionally. This is totally false. Submissives do not suffer from low self esteem, inferiority complex, acceptance of abuse, or any other mental illness any more than the rest of the population. … Continue reading S is for submissive
R is for Ritual
Rituals serve a purpose. They put us in the right frame of mind for the occassion. Eventually, we react instinctively when we are the midst of a ritual. Having been brought up Catholic, all I have to do is hear the words "In the name. . " and I'm finishing the words and moving to … Continue reading R is for Ritual
Training her Ass – Finale
The intensive part of training Clara's has has been completed. After only one rebellion, Clara and I are both well pleased with the result. For her part, not only does she no longer fear anything anal, but eagerly looks forward to having her ass taken. If that's what it takes to keep my lady happy, … Continue reading Training her Ass – Finale
Training her Ass – Part 2
So far, Clara has done remarkably well with her training. We began slowly with the beads, then with the same beads but for an extended time, then on the third day I inserted the smallest plug. She cringed at this, but after a few orgasms, accepted it easily enough. I kept it inside of her … Continue reading Training her Ass – Part 2
P is for Play party
So there are parites - gathering of friends or friends of friends where drinks, conversation, and food is often shared. Sometimes there's music, sometimes games. At an Adult Play Party, much of the same is true, except the games are far more of a sexual nature. Despite what people think, a Play part is NOT … Continue reading P is for Play party
Training her ass
Clara has always wanted to engage in anal sex, but has always been too frightened. Our goal is to overcome that fear and to train her ass so that we can both enjoy it whenever we (and by that I mean I) choose. To begin, Clara put herself on a high fiber diet about a … Continue reading Training her ass
First Reprimand of Summer
So as I mentioned the other day, I broke our first Summer Rules 2018 within hours of establishing them. I Said "Stop" and slapped away Milord's hand when he was tweaking my nipples. I didn't mean to. I didn't even think about it. I was washing dishes and didn't hear him come up behind me. When … Continue reading First Reprimand of Summer
M is for Mental Bondage
BDSM doesn't have to involve ropes, chains, and cuffs. Sometimes, just a word is enough. A long time ago I was mentally in a place where I simply could not stand even the sight of ropes, cuffs, or any other form of physical bondage. We worked our way back slowly. My husband, always creative, slowly … Continue reading M is for Mental Bondage
Summer Rules 2018
Milord loved last summer's rules and, for that matter, so did I. He suggested that this summer we continue with the same basic rules, with just a few little tweaks which I've marked. These rules actually began on Memorial Day and will go until September 21. No bra or underwear unless given specific permission, which … Continue reading Summer Rules 2018
Anarie Brady 