Ya gotta admit - I've been good this summer. So far. Until last weekend. We all know that at time I screw up just because something in me needs, desperately, to be disciplined. that's really the only explanation I have for what I did. My Summer Rules 201 8 are pretty basic and easy to follow, but … Continue reading Disciplined
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Z is for Zipper
Zippers have long been in use for a quick - or slow - removal of clothing. In the BDSM world, however, a zipper is a series of clothes pins attached to a string of some kind. The pins are then clipped onto the skin and, by pulling the string, can be quickly - and painfully! … Continue reading Z is for Zipper
Y is for Yes
Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes
W is for Wax Play
A slightly darkened room, candles on the table, a naked woman waiting for you. No, this is not the beginning of a Vanilla evening, but rather the beginning of a wax Play evening. Be warned!!! Wax play can be dangerous and leave SERIOUS BURNS. You DO NOT WANT THIS. If you are new to Wax … Continue reading W is for Wax Play
V is for Vanilla
Let's be honest, there's absolutely nothing wrong with vanilla. In fact, most people find the scent comforting and the flavor delightful. In the BDSM world, Vanilla is also perfectly fine. For us, though, it means sexual/romantic activity lacking kinkiness. No "Sirs", paddles, cuffs, hair pulling, blindfolds, or other accoutrements. It's holding hands, kissing gently, slow … Continue reading V is for Vanilla
U is for Uniform
By definition, a uniform is a distinctive type of clothing worn for the purpose of identification. Many people enjoy wearing uniforms for both BDSM/kinky purposes or in the course of their jobs. After all, who hasn't heard about the mythical "man in uniform" scenerio or the French Maid's uniform. Clothing says a lot about us. … Continue reading U is for Uniform
T is for Training
I know to the Vanilla groups, training sounds archaic. But if you think about it, we train our bodies and minds in many ways - exercise, suduko, learning new skills. Really, that's all Submissive Training really is - learning a new skill. In this blog post, a woman decides to go to The Disciplinarian in order … Continue reading T is for Training
S is for submissive
I don't like when people, some even within the lifestyle, believe that a submissive is a weaker person, one whose purpose is to serve unconditionally. This is totally false. Submissives do not suffer from low self esteem, inferiority complex, acceptance of abuse, or any other mental illness any more than the rest of the population. … Continue reading S is for submissive
R is for Ritual
Rituals serve a purpose. They put us in the right frame of mind for the occassion. Eventually, we react instinctively when we are the midst of a ritual. Having been brought up Catholic, all I have to do is hear the words "In the name. . " and I'm finishing the words and moving to … Continue reading R is for Ritual
Training her Ass – Finale
The intensive part of training Clara's has has been completed. After only one rebellion, Clara and I are both well pleased with the result. For her part, not only does she no longer fear anything anal, but eagerly looks forward to having her ass taken. If that's what it takes to keep my lady happy, … Continue reading Training her Ass – Finale
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