Choice. People ignorant of BDSM sometimes think that the submissive has no choice. In truth, we submissives hold more power of choice than even our dominants. We have the power to say no. We have the power to stop every activity. We also have the power to say Yes. For example, Milord had a gala … Continue reading Power
Discrete BDSM
Rope Bra
Day 35 of 24/7 lifers I have asked Ri' for additional weekend bindings. On weekends, I wear only skirts or dresses and never underclothing or the chastity belt. In this way, I am open to my Ri' at all times. It is shocking how sexy and horny this makes me feel!! Nonetheless, I miss the … Continue reading Rope Bra
Discrete Obedience
Clara took one last look in the mirror. Perfect. She looked every inch the confident professional on her way to a meeting. No one would guess that beneath the forest green dress her bottom was rosy red and slightly bruised from Benjamin's attentions this morning. He had decided that rather than using his hand for … Continue reading Discrete Obedience
Accepting my fate
Spring Rules 2019 New House Rules It's the weekend, and so no underclothing. I did ask, respectfully, if I might wear a bra today. As a result, Milord grinned at me, said no, then found a white blouse for me to wear instead. I closed my eyes, blushed, but accepted his decree. Now, I'm … Continue reading Accepting my fate
Challenge: wear no tradition top for a week
Challenge of the week: For the next week, wear no tradition blouse, top, or shirt. Absolutely no bra. Continue the regular routine of work (at least I work from home!), shopping, and socializing (Yikes!). All I can say is - thank the gods for pinterest!
Broken Egg
Each day I will insert a Yoni egg for at least one hour. No, I didn't break my yoni egg, but I did forget to insert it. I don't even have a good excuse. I wasn't ill or overworked or visiting my mother. No good excuse except the truth. I forgot. This morning after Milord … Continue reading Broken Egg
No Shame
The evening began perfectly. The message on the bed read dress in the new evening gown. You won't be disappointed. I wasn't A beautiful gown, a handsome, attentive man, a limousine, champagne, exotic nibbles, even a string quartet. He held out his hand so we would dance, I thought. I took it and looked up … Continue reading No Shame
More Consequences
Lunch with Consequences I felt, was a good reminder not to assume what Lion might want, but to go with what I KNOW we have agreed to. Lion, though, felt that I need to have this lesson more firmly established. Which is why I was surprised when he brought out an over the bust corset … Continue reading More Consequences
U is for Uniform
By definition, a uniform is a distinctive type of clothing worn for the purpose of identification. Many people enjoy wearing uniforms for both BDSM/kinky purposes or in the course of their jobs. After all, who hasn't heard about the mythical "man in uniform" scenerio or the French Maid's uniform. Clothing says a lot about us. … Continue reading U is for Uniform
Tight
Milord has decreed that for the next week I wear corsets. He has adjusted my lingerie cabinet to match his instructions. I must say, I do not find corsets comfortable, but I do find them humbling. Naturally, Milord has also instituted a ritual. I am not allowed to leave the bed in the morning until … Continue reading Tight
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