Y is for Yes

Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes

T is for Training

I know to the Vanilla groups, training sounds archaic. But if you think about it, we train our bodies and minds in many ways - exercise, suduko, learning new skills. Really, that's all Submissive Training really is - learning a new skill. In this blog post, a woman decides to go to  The Disciplinarian in order … Continue reading T is for Training

Training her Ass – Finale

The intensive part of training Clara's has has been completed. After only one rebellion, Clara and I are both well pleased with the result. For her part, not only does she no longer fear anything anal, but eagerly looks forward to having her ass taken. If that's what it takes to keep my lady happy, … Continue reading Training her Ass – Finale

Training her Ass – Part 2

So far, Clara has done remarkably well with her training. We began slowly with the beads, then with the same beads but for an extended time, then on the third day I inserted the smallest plug. She cringed at this, but after a few orgasms, accepted it easily enough. I kept it inside of her … Continue reading Training her Ass – Part 2

Training her ass

Clara has always wanted to engage in anal sex, but has always been too frightened. Our goal is to overcome that fear and to train her ass so that we can both enjoy it whenever we (and by that I mean I) choose. To begin, Clara put herself on a high fiber diet about a … Continue reading Training her ass

Summer Rules 2018

Milord loved last summer's rules and, for that matter, so did I. He suggested that this summer we continue with the same basic rules, with just a few little tweaks which I've marked. These rules actually began on Memorial Day and will go until September 21. No bra or underwear unless given specific permission, which … Continue reading Summer Rules 2018

Extended Time for breaking rules

Spring Rules 2018  You guessed it. I screwed up again. Really, it wasn't my fault this time. True, I was cutting it close coming home from my friend Josie's house, but how was I to know that construction the highway started yesterday and I'd be stuck in traffic for over 45 minutes. Sure, I told … Continue reading Extended Time for breaking rules

K is for Klismaphilia

How many of you have heard of this word?  I hadn't until I starting doing research for this series. According to Psychology Today it is a term coined by Dr Joanne Denko in the reporting of two case studies early 1970s ('klisma' is the Greek word for 'enema')—is a very unusual variant in sexual expression in which an … Continue reading K is for Klismaphilia

I is for insertable

That's right - insertable. Absolutely anything that can be SAFELY inserted and then SAFELY removed. Plugs, dildos, ginger, fingers, tongues, cocks, fists, popciles, soap, balls - you name it. Key word here is SAFELY - never, ever forget that. If you're trying something new, do your research. Make sure of any allergies or phobias - … Continue reading I is for insertable

G is for Grandmothering

This IS NOT GILF (grandmothers I'd like to fuck). It is about appearing in front of your grandmother in such a manner as she would approve of - at least on the outside.  Wearing a pretty, modest dress or other outfit, but beneath wearing whatever your Dominant choose you to wear. For example, wearing a … Continue reading G is for Grandmothering