So I'm wearing a new skirt today which is beautiful and flowly and comfy and elegant all at the same time. Milord, though, has decided that before I can wear something new, I must "pay" for that privilege. (I'm TOTALLY down with this idea!!!) So, first I must worship his cock and balls - SQUEEEE!!!! … Continue reading Paying for new clothes
ABC for BDSM
Safe Word Test
To be honest, I've never used my safe word. I've never felt the need. My Lion and I both wondered, then what it would take for me to actually use it. I have no fear that the word would be denied, but I DO have a great need to accept all that My Lion chooses … Continue reading Safe Word Test
10 things I’m Thankful for – take 2
Want to read Things I’m Thankful for – the Submissive Take 1? Here's my updated list. Central Heating. Without this, it would be so much more difficult to be comfortably nude in the winter!! Pearls. They are so very versatile! Used as a necklace, earrings, wrapped around wrists for bondage, the center of a thong which is … Continue reading 10 things I’m Thankful for – take 2
Don’t. Just Don’t
Don't. Just Don't. Don't fuck me, demand my obedience, spank my ass like it's the most precious thing in your life Then ignore more for weeks. Don't. Just Don't. Don't make me swear to forego panties, keep my kitten shaved, and threaten grave reprimands if I disobey Then forget to check for obedience. Don't. Just … Continue reading Don’t. Just Don’t
The Long Awaited Punishment
So, a long while back, I published Summer Rules 2018. I also admitted to seriously breaking a rule by slapping away Milord's hands when he was fondling my tits. I was washing the dishes, singing to myself, and he startled me! It wasn't my fault! Okay. That's a blatant and one I'm likely to regret. Not, … Continue reading The Long Awaited Punishment
Z is for Zipper
Zippers have long been in use for a quick - or slow - removal of clothing. In the BDSM world, however, a zipper is a series of clothes pins attached to a string of some kind. The pins are then clipped onto the skin and, by pulling the string, can be quickly - and painfully! … Continue reading Z is for Zipper
Y is for Yes
Yes is an extremely powerful word. It implies permission and acceptance - two very different, but companionable ideas. The who says this (or doesn't say it) also holds a great deal of power. This, dear readers, is a shared responsibility between the Dom and Sub; Top and Bottom; Master/Mistress and slave. Any relationship, not just … Continue reading Y is for Yes
X is for Xenophilia
Xenophilia - one who is sexually excited by strangers. Hmmmm. Maybe this partially explains the allure of the one night stand bar hook-up. As with everything else, if this is your thing, use common sense as regards your safety. Better yet, let the "stranger" be unknown to you, but NOT to the arranger, possibly your … Continue reading X is for Xenophilia
W is for Wax Play
A slightly darkened room, candles on the table, a naked woman waiting for you. No, this is not the beginning of a Vanilla evening, but rather the beginning of a wax Play evening. Be warned!!! Wax play can be dangerous and leave SERIOUS BURNS. You DO NOT WANT THIS. If you are new to Wax … Continue reading W is for Wax Play
V is for Vanilla
Let's be honest, there's absolutely nothing wrong with vanilla. In fact, most people find the scent comforting and the flavor delightful. In the BDSM world, Vanilla is also perfectly fine. For us, though, it means sexual/romantic activity lacking kinkiness. No "Sirs", paddles, cuffs, hair pulling, blindfolds, or other accoutrements. It's holding hands, kissing gently, slow … Continue reading V is for Vanilla
Anarie Brady 