Xenophilia – one who is sexually excited by strangers. Hmmmm. Maybe this partially explains the allure of the one night stand bar hook-up. As with everything else, if this is your thing, use common sense as regards your safety. Better yet, let the “stranger” be unknown to you, but NOT to the arranger, possibly your Dom. If you are the Dom, let your sub make the arrangement. This way, there’s a vetting process in place. Nonetheless, the exquisitness of discovery, of adventure, of the unknown, plus that little spice of danger can, indeed, be a heady combination.