We're off to the beach!! Naturally, Milord has rules for me. First off, this is a nude beach - not clothing optional, but nude. Even if it were clothing optional, I wouldn't have that option. Milord has decided that I need a better self image and as such, I will be nude as often as … Continue reading Beach Bunny
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3 Day Camp – In review
Our 3 days of renewal - Lion and his lioness - were altogether successful. By the end of the first day, I was in total submind and he, my Lion, was the Alpha in all ways. We ended the day with him giving me a wonderful foot massage! Not Alpha you say? Not at all. … Continue reading 3 Day Camp – In review
Three Day Camp – Day 1
My Lion and I have decided that we need a good re-boot camp. We have both been putting our work (which is certainly important) and other concerns (televions, computer games, which are not important) ahead of our relationship. These days will be devoted to both of us re learning our roles as lovers, friends, and … Continue reading Three Day Camp – Day 1
Office Surprise
I went to visit Sir today. He has been working hard on a paper and stuck in his office doing research of all kinds. The current topic he's working on is how the Japanese art of Shibari has added to the mainstreaming of certain aspects of BDSM. Sir, you see, speaks and writes fluent Japanese. … Continue reading Office Surprise
Tidy Whitey
I'm a clutz. If I can get from 7:00 a.m. to 8:00 a.m. without a coffee stain on me somewhere, it's a good day. The problem is that I get so distracted by shiny things that I forget what I'm doing and spill shit. I've asked Milord to help with this and he has happily … Continue reading Tidy Whitey
Lesson in Humility
I look at her and know she hates this. I also know she'll obey. My Girl has a strong prideful streak which has caused her issues in the past. Lost jobs. Aliented friends. She has asked that I help her tame her prideful ways, and I have happily agreed. This morning she mouthed off to … Continue reading Lesson in Humility
Submind – explained
I used the term "submind" in much of my writing, but trying to actually define what it is can be a bit nebulous. First, let me point out that it's different for every person. The OED defines it as a "lesser, lower mind; the subconscious part of a person's mind." When I first read that … Continue reading Submind – explained
New use for Carpet Beater
I have a penchant for beautiful yet useful things. Carpet beaters are an example of this. In fact, I have a whole collection of them hanging in our foyer. Guests often comment on them and wonder at the amount of work it would have taken to clean all the rugs in a house back in the … Continue reading New use for Carpet Beater
AAA- Triple A
Three days. Three days of Anal - Triple A - or more if I'm lucky. Mister absolutely LOVES anal. Personally, I could do with it. At least when I haven't had it in a while I feel like I don't miss it. Then, decides he wants my ass again, and it's all I can think … Continue reading AAA- Triple A
Sexual Assault
This is, as the category states, NON-FICTION. People have asked me why I write BDSM. It's about abuse, right? WRONG. There are several key aspects of the lifestyle which differentiate it from abuse. First and foremost is consent. Each party consciously, with full knowledge, and with shared expectations, gives consent for each and every act … Continue reading Sexual Assault
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