Oh, so many possibilities – Collar, Cuff, Cum, Cock and Ball torture, Clips, Cuffing, Cupping, cane, candles, Chastity, clamps, cock ring – the possibilities really are close to endless. Sadly, I’m just going to concentrate on one. (Of course, if anyone would like my opinion/explanation for another, just leave a comment!)

CUFFS:  I absolutely adore cuffs, but not actual handcuffs. Some folks love those and that’s all well and fine. I find the metal simply too harsh on my small bones and delicate skin. Cuffs can be for ankles, wrists, thighs, upper arms. They can be metal, leather, fur lined, cloth, silk, rope. Really, the limit is your imagination and the tolerance of your sub. They can be thick and obvious, or thin and delicate, whose purpose is know only to a few select. They can be snug – never tight enough to interfere with circulation!!! or loose. For me, it’s all about the mindset having a pair of cuffs slapped on me produces. I am bound. Even if I am walking around the mall with thin, beautifully tooled leather “bracelets” on, I am bound to Him. This binding puts my mind, along with my body, under his jurisdiction. When cuffed, He can, at any moment, severely restrict my movements and take over my body, doing things to it that I might not (at least on the surface!) like or want. Things that I might try to resist if I were not bound. Things that my body craves but my mind rebels against. Things that will, in the long run, please us both. I become his willing capitve. I release to his Power. I am his.