Autumn Rules 2019 We are on VACAY!!! In the tropics. Nonetheless, my Rules still apply. Luckily, Milord has booked us into an ADULTS ONLY/CLOTHING OPTIONAL/LIFESTYLE FRIENDLY resort. It's amazing. This morning, for example, I went to a pier to do my yoga. Milord went with me and, while I was yogaing (is that a word?) … Continue reading Vacay Punishment
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Power
Choice. People ignorant of BDSM sometimes think that the submissive has no choice. In truth, we submissives hold more power of choice than even our dominants. We have the power to say no. We have the power to stop every activity. We also have the power to say Yes. For example, Milord had a gala … Continue reading Power
Bragging equals exposure
H has always liked to discipline me by humiliation. Pain - I like it. Anal plugs - Never wetter. Public exposure, however, OMG!!! Still, I could object. He won't FORCE me. Today, we were at a secluded lake fishing. (Yes, fishing. We both LOVE to fish!) The lake is privately owned and, as I said, … Continue reading Bragging equals exposure
Incitement to rape? — A Faded Romantic’s Notebook
I have published this post four times before, but it feels like a good time to post it again. First posted September 1st 2015 Sometimes I get serious It seems an ageing female rock star recently suggested in an interview with one of our sad excuses for a serious newspaper that women/girls who dress provocatively […] … Continue reading Incitement to rape? — A Faded Romantic’s Notebook
Silken Peace
I am spread eagle and blinded Silken scarves bind an soothe. My soul is at peace.
Day of the Dare – 1
Of course it's going to hurt. It wouldn't be effective if it didn't now, would it? Marla shook her head. She was forbidden to speak and wouldn't dare make this day worse that it was proving to be. Of course, she was the one who had asked for this day, actually dared him to do … Continue reading Day of the Dare – 1
Out with Friends
Clara stood stoically, silently, as Jackson adjusted the belts. Tonight, she was going out with friends and Jackson didn't want her to forget to whom she belonged. He had no intention of allowing her to forget her rules as she had the last time. She had come home with her lipstick smeared, smelling of beer … Continue reading Out with Friends
A Glorious Afternoon
Yes, I know you don't particularly enjoy stripping in front of others, but you'll do it, won't you? I thought so. You many not admit it, but at heart, we both know that you enjoy being exhibited. You enjoy even more, obeying me don't you? Now, be good and I won't bind you to the … Continue reading A Glorious Afternoon
5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated
TELL HIM. Simple, but often ignored. Have a heart to heart conversation about what you truly need and what you are willing to do to get it. Research. Peruse some factual and fictional sites together to come up with ideas that excite you both. Start slowly. When you are both ready, begin adding words like … Continue reading 5 ways to let Him know you need Dominated
Accepting my fate
Spring Rules 2019 New House Rules It's the weekend, and so no underclothing. I did ask, respectfully, if I might wear a bra today. As a result, Milord grinned at me, said no, then found a white blouse for me to wear instead. I closed my eyes, blushed, but accepted his decree. Now, I'm … Continue reading Accepting my fate