Birthday Recovery

So yesterday Sir lovingly gave me 360 swats neatly divided into 8 groups of 45. He used his hand, a pizza peel (Holy Shite!!), a yardstick, a new wooden spoon, and his belt (which he used with little force!) Today, sitting is, to say the least, challenging. He also did other deviant and wonderful things … Continue reading Birthday Recovery

Birthday Blistering

Sir loves numbers. And so, for my birthday, he based his "gift" on numbers.  Today I turned 45. 4+5=9. So, the rope he bound me with had 9 knots. Once he had that in place, helped me to knee and bend, my shoulders and head resting on a low occasional table. He told to me … Continue reading Birthday Blistering

Acts of Public Domination

Here are a few suggestions for the Dominate (I'm going to use the pronoun He for the dom and she for the sub) to reinforce his role while in public. (Private is a whole 'nuther post!)  Be gracious to a fault Never criticize or argue with your sub Touch her often - the lower back, … Continue reading Acts of Public Domination

Boho Chic for the Submissive

Boho is my style. I'm proud of it. I love the looseness, the comfort, and the totally "can be seen in public" aspect of it. Why is that last important? Because Mr. Mister and I are social people, but also private. Publicly, we are like any other couple. Privately, I'm a total sub junkie. I … Continue reading Boho Chic for the Submissive

Nip-let bound

Yes, I wear Milord's chains. Sometimes just a small anklet, sometimes a necklace, sometimes more. Today, it's more. Today, he wished me to wear all of his chains - the anklet, the necklace, and, what he deems, the niplet. Last year I agreed to have my nipples pierce, something Milord had desired for quite some … Continue reading Nip-let bound

My Lord’s Chains

Really, it's my own fault. I told Him that I would not, simply would not wear a collar in public. Not tonight, not any night. No. That collar was for us privately. I was not His 24/7 submissive. I had agreed to be his 24/2 1/2 submissive. From Friday after work until Monday morning, I … Continue reading My Lord’s Chains

Long Distance Discipline

Sir is gone, out of the country, but that doesn't mean I serve him less. No, it simply means I serve him differently. I keep an online journal which I must update daily by 8:00 p.m. My rules are still in place, and so I must tell him if I have broken any. I also … Continue reading Long Distance Discipline

TGIF BDSM style

It's Friday afternoon - which means TGIF. Now, I don't go out with co-workers to celebrate the weekend, I go home. Straight home. I CANNOT be late! Mister is always home about an hour before I am and if I'm even one minute late on Fridays, I get punished. I LOVE this because I can't … Continue reading TGIF BDSM style