Extended Time for breaking rules

Spring Rules 2018  You guessed it. I screwed up again. Really, it wasn't my fault this time. True, I was cutting it close coming home from my friend Josie's house, but how was I to know that construction the highway started yesterday and I'd be stuck in traffic for over 45 minutes. Sure, I told … Continue reading Extended Time for breaking rules

Submission isn’t and is

Submission isn't about pain about bondage about discomfort. It isn't losing yourself inside of another. It's about loving totally and fully about respect about trust It's about finding yourself in the eyes of another. It's about giving and demanding and receiving and sharing Submission isn't frightening. It's liberating  

K is for Klismaphilia

How many of you have heard of this word?  I hadn't until I starting doing research for this series. According to Psychology Today it is a term coined by Dr Joanne Denko in the reporting of two case studies early 1970s ('klisma' is the Greek word for 'enema')—is a very unusual variant in sexual expression in which an … Continue reading K is for Klismaphilia

J is for Japanese Clover Clamps

These are some wicked clamps! Rumor has it they were invented by a Japanese seamstress, but I have no idea if that is true or false, so please, don't quote me on it. What I DO know is that these babies start with a tight, firm pinch and with each minute tug on the chain … Continue reading J is for Japanese Clover Clamps

I is for insertable

That's right - insertable. Absolutely anything that can be SAFELY inserted and then SAFELY removed. Plugs, dildos, ginger, fingers, tongues, cocks, fists, popciles, soap, balls - you name it. Key word here is SAFELY - never, ever forget that. If you're trying something new, do your research. Make sure of any allergies or phobias - … Continue reading I is for insertable

H is for Horse

Spanking horse, that is. Practically anything can be turned into a spanking bench or horse - a tall backed chaired, the end of a bed, a bar stool. Anything that a submissive can be bent over will work beautifully. Personally, I like this design (althought I have yet to actually try it myself!). I like … Continue reading H is for Horse

Mine

Do not, for one moment, think you have a choice. Well, much of a choice. You have two choices. Accept, or use your safeword/gesture, the one and only word or gesture that I will alwayes respect.   Aside from that, you will accept. I need, demand, your total surrender. You will be blindfolded, bound, used, … Continue reading Mine

Humiliation – Day 3

Over the past 2 days I have been forced to accept and hold five enemas, release the contents of my bowels and bladder with no expectation of privacy, eat from a dog bowl, drink from a dog bowl, suffered the indignaties of bakkara, have my body used as a convas for rude, filthy names, been fucked … Continue reading Humiliation – Day 3

B – BDSM Alphabet

Okay, I have to go with the expected here - BUTTPLUG!!!! Of course, the choices here are absolutely ENDLESS!!! First, let's talk about shape. Traditionally, the egg style shape is quite popular, but something more elongated, narrow at the top and wide at the bottom also w orks well. There are also the balls which … Continue reading B – BDSM Alphabet

Needed

She's tense, keyed up, wild eyed. Her sharp tongue slices clipped answers and her shoulders practically touch her ears. "Second bedroom. Now," I order. Her eyes flash with defiance, but she goes without question, another sure sign she's in need of what only I can give her. She steps in and begins to strip out … Continue reading Needed