Acts of Public Submission

Now for the list of suggestions to show your submission while in public (Again, I'm using the pronoun He for the dominate and She for the sub, but this is simply an act of convenience.).  Never criticize or argue in public. If you disagree, hold your tongue until you're in private. Smile at him often … Continue reading Acts of Public Submission

Birthday Recovery

So yesterday Sir lovingly gave me 360 swats neatly divided into 8 groups of 45. He used his hand, a pizza peel (Holy Shite!!), a yardstick, a new wooden spoon, and his belt (which he used with little force!) Today, sitting is, to say the least, challenging. He also did other deviant and wonderful things … Continue reading Birthday Recovery

Acts of Public Domination

Here are a few suggestions for the Dominate (I'm going to use the pronoun He for the dom and she for the sub) to reinforce his role while in public. (Private is a whole 'nuther post!)  Be gracious to a fault Never criticize or argue with your sub Touch her often - the lower back, … Continue reading Acts of Public Domination

Tea Time Tradition

We have begun a new practice which, I hope, will become a tradition. Thursday has always been our Day of Recogning. You see, Milord and I do not live together, which suits us both. We chat daily, see each other several times a week, go on dates, stay at each other's homes, but Thursday is … Continue reading Tea Time Tradition

Feminist Sub

I am a feminist and a submissive. Yes, I believe that a woman has the right, no, the duty to make her own decisions based upon her desires, needs, and abilities. Yes, I believe a woman's voice is just as judicial as a man's. Yes, I believe a woman must and should stand up for … Continue reading Feminist Sub

Nip-let bound

Yes, I wear Milord's chains. Sometimes just a small anklet, sometimes a necklace, sometimes more. Today, it's more. Today, he wished me to wear all of his chains - the anklet, the necklace, and, what he deems, the niplet. Last year I agreed to have my nipples pierce, something Milord had desired for quite some … Continue reading Nip-let bound

My Lord’s Chains

Really, it's my own fault. I told Him that I would not, simply would not wear a collar in public. Not tonight, not any night. No. That collar was for us privately. I was not His 24/7 submissive. I had agreed to be his 24/2 1/2 submissive. From Friday after work until Monday morning, I … Continue reading My Lord’s Chains

Long Distance Discipline

Sir is gone, out of the country, but that doesn't mean I serve him less. No, it simply means I serve him differently. I keep an online journal which I must update daily by 8:00 p.m. My rules are still in place, and so I must tell him if I have broken any. I also … Continue reading Long Distance Discipline

TGIF BDSM style

It's Friday afternoon - which means TGIF. Now, I don't go out with co-workers to celebrate the weekend, I go home. Straight home. I CANNOT be late! Mister is always home about an hour before I am and if I'm even one minute late on Fridays, I get punished. I LOVE this because I can't … Continue reading TGIF BDSM style