A Submissive’s Resolutions 2022

I want to please Ard Ri SO MUCH that sometimes I either don't communicate honestly with him or I don't use my safeword when I really should. With that in mind, I resolve to speak up and/or use my safeword when I need to rather than simply going along with whatever Ard Ri decrees in … Continue reading A Submissive’s Resolutions 2022

A Dominant’s New Year’s Resolutions

I have a tendency to allow details of mundane life - household repairs, work, etc.- to overpower why I work. I want to work to live, not live to work. As such, I resolve to limit non-emergency home repairs to Sundays and to turn off the work phone at 7:00 p.m. 2. I also have … Continue reading A Dominant’s New Year’s Resolutions

St. Andrew’s Day Reprimand

Syd stood back, hands behind her back, feet shoulder width apart, head and eyes down, and tried to listen attentively while Sir calmly explained why she would be reprimanded. She knew EXACTLY why she was being reprimanded. Her heart was as heavy as lead, filled with her own disappointment in herself. Today at lunch, she'd … Continue reading St. Andrew’s Day Reprimand

Milord’s Favorite Lingerie

As a reminder, 2022 House rules. I've been very good lately, so Milord decided to "reward" me by gifting me a matching set of "lingerie". We were going out for the evening - nothing special - just dinner at our favorite local place and hanging with some vanilla friends after. Nonetheless, Milord likes to prepare … Continue reading Milord’s Favorite Lingerie

Long Distance Discipline

Milord Is out of town for two weeks. TWO WEEKS. No worries, despite the lack of cuddles, because we facetime every evening. Every third evening during our time, I place my phone on a stand, sit on the bed, and tell him of any infractions. If there are none, he gives me discipline without punishment … Continue reading Long Distance Discipline