I want to please Ard Ri SO MUCH that sometimes I either don't communicate honestly with him or I don't use my safeword when I really should. With that in mind, I resolve to speak up and/or use my safeword when I need to rather than simply going along with whatever Ard Ri decrees in … Continue reading A Submissive’s Resolutions 2022
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A Dominant’s New Year’s Resolutions
I have a tendency to allow details of mundane life - household repairs, work, etc.- to overpower why I work. I want to work to live, not live to work. As such, I resolve to limit non-emergency home repairs to Sundays and to turn off the work phone at 7:00 p.m. 2. I also have … Continue reading A Dominant’s New Year’s Resolutions
Winter Rules Adaptation
All clothing will be removed while at home. Even when outside (we live out in the country and have a 7 foot tall privacy fence around the yard), no clothing other than shoes and a sun hat will be worn. I am not even allowed to ask for permission to put on clothing. Only Milord … Continue reading Winter Rules Adaptation
St. Andrew’s Day Reprimand
Syd stood back, hands behind her back, feet shoulder width apart, head and eyes down, and tried to listen attentively while Sir calmly explained why she would be reprimanded. She knew EXACTLY why she was being reprimanded. Her heart was as heavy as lead, filled with her own disappointment in herself. Today at lunch, she'd … Continue reading St. Andrew’s Day Reprimand
Milord’s Favorite Lingerie
As a reminder, 2022 House rules. I've been very good lately, so Milord decided to "reward" me by gifting me a matching set of "lingerie". We were going out for the evening - nothing special - just dinner at our favorite local place and hanging with some vanilla friends after. Nonetheless, Milord likes to prepare … Continue reading Milord’s Favorite Lingerie
Long Distance Discipline
Milord Is out of town for two weeks. TWO WEEKS. No worries, despite the lack of cuddles, because we facetime every evening. Every third evening during our time, I place my phone on a stand, sit on the bed, and tell him of any infractions. If there are none, he gives me discipline without punishment … Continue reading Long Distance Discipline
Chains Me Up
Chain me up and keep the keyGive me the freedom to simply BEI give you my power in a total exchangeYes or No is my only decision range. Give to me the strength of steelWrap me in metal from head to heelI trust you alone to keep me safeYour bonds alone will never chafe Cold … Continue reading Chains Me Up
TPE 24/7 Trial – Part 5
24/7 TPE Trial 24/7 TPE Trial – 2 TPE 24/7 Trial – 3 TPE 24/7 Part 4 TPE 24/7 Trial – Part 5 My tat is barely visible now - barely - which means this is likely to be the last day of our trial. This makes me a bit sad. I have never felt more alive and - … Continue reading TPE 24/7 Trial – Part 5
TPE 24/7 Trial – 3
Today was a rough day at work. Everything that could go wrong did. To top everything else off, I was late getting hope because of a car accident. It's been 6 days since we began, so I know my expectations, and one is to be in my inspection position - Standing with legs wide, hands … Continue reading TPE 24/7 Trial – 3
Failing Milord’s Test
That sneaky, strict, sexy man! He set me up. He totally set me up. When my friend, Julia, asked if I would like to grab dinner for a Girls' Night Out, I obviously said yes. Milord never sets rules for which friends I can see or when. He only asks to be informed - which … Continue reading Failing Milord’s Test