That's right - insertable. Absolutely anything that can be SAFELY inserted and then SAFELY removed. Plugs, dildos, ginger, fingers, tongues, cocks, fists, popciles, soap, balls - you name it. Key word here is SAFELY - never, ever forget that. If you're trying something new, do your research. Make sure of any allergies or phobias - … Continue reading I is for insertable
Submissive Training
H is for Horse
Spanking horse, that is. Practically anything can be turned into a spanking bench or horse - a tall backed chaired, the end of a bed, a bar stool. Anything that a submissive can be bent over will work beautifully. Personally, I like this design (althought I have yet to actually try it myself!). I like … Continue reading H is for Horse
G is for Grandmothering
This IS NOT GILF (grandmothers I'd like to fuck). It is about appearing in front of your grandmother in such a manner as she would approve of - at least on the outside. Wearing a pretty, modest dress or other outfit, but beneath wearing whatever your Dominant choose you to wear. For example, wearing a … Continue reading G is for Grandmothering
F is for Funishment
Funishment is a traditional type of punishment that is used not for discipline, but for pleasure. Naturally, the list for this ends only with your imagination. Can you use the same activity for both a funishment and a punishment? Of course!! The difference, at least for me, is HOW the fun/punishment is administered. For example, … Continue reading F is for Funishment
E – BDSM Alphabet
Erotica, Edging, Electroplay, Enema - what to choose? Enema - I choose you!!! Many people - understandably so - view enema play as disgusting and gross. To fair, it rather is. Also to be fair, if you want to engage in anal play, sometimes it's necessary to make sure the area to be used is … Continue reading E – BDSM Alphabet
Humiliation – check in
The Reverend has been as good as his word - as I knew he would be. A few weeks ago he put me in a 3 day long intensive humiliation boot camp. I came out of it happy, definined, submissive, and content. He also promised that he would never again let me become as bossy, … Continue reading Humiliation – check in
Humiliation – Day 3
Over the past 2 days I have been forced to accept and hold five enemas, release the contents of my bowels and bladder with no expectation of privacy, eat from a dog bowl, drink from a dog bowl, suffered the indignaties of bakkara, have my body used as a convas for rude, filthy names, been fucked … Continue reading Humiliation – Day 3
Humiliation – Day 2
Yesterday was horrific and rewarding. Reverend administered five enemas - each producing painful cramping and strong elimination. Well, four with painful cramping. The fifth was his own cum. My anus is still plugged with a metal plug which has an interal "bolt" that can be removed when I need to evacuate. The only time this … Continue reading Humiliation – Day 2
Humiliation – Day 1
Reverend has decreed that I need to do penance and i heatily agree. I have been edgy, bitchy, surly, unhappy, uppity, and cras for weeks now. He's had enough and, honestly, so have i. It is high time He takes me in hand and demands my complete surrender. Today began that journey. In order for … Continue reading Humiliation – Day 1
B – BDSM Alphabet
Okay, I have to go with the expected here - BUTTPLUG!!!! Of course, the choices here are absolutely ENDLESS!!! First, let's talk about shape. Traditionally, the egg style shape is quite popular, but something more elongated, narrow at the top and wide at the bottom also w orks well. There are also the balls which … Continue reading B – BDSM Alphabet