Gentlemen, It is an honor to be seen with you, to be with you. Know that we prepare for this honor sometimes for hours. We shower, shave, slather lotion on, dry our hair, curl or straighten it, arrange it in an up do, braid it. We perfume our bodies. We pluck or wax our legs, … Continue reading Getting Ready – an Open Letter to Gentlemen
Non fiction
The Nymph’s Reply
The Nymph’s Reply to the Shepherd BY SIR WALTER RALEGH If all the world and love were young, And truth in every Shepherd’s tongue, These pretty pleasures might me move, To live with thee, and be thy love. Time drives the flocks from field to fold, When Rivers rage and Rocks grow cold, And Philomel becometh dumb, The … Continue reading The Nymph’s Reply
The Passionate Shepherd
The Passionate Shepherd to His Love BY CHRISTOPHER MARLOWE Come live with me and be my love, And we will all the pleasures prove, That Valleys, groves, hills, and fields, Woods, or steepy mountain yields. And we will sit upon the Rocks, Seeing the Shepherds feed their flocks, By shallow Rivers to whose falls Melodious birds … Continue reading The Passionate Shepherd
Submind – explained
I used the term "submind" in much of my writing, but trying to actually define what it is can be a bit nebulous. First, let me point out that it's different for every person. The OED defines it as a "lesser, lower mind; the subconscious part of a person's mind." When I first read that … Continue reading Submind – explained
Sexual Assault
This is, as the category states, NON-FICTION. People have asked me why I write BDSM. It's about abuse, right? WRONG. There are several key aspects of the lifestyle which differentiate it from abuse. First and foremost is consent. Each party consciously, with full knowledge, and with shared expectations, gives consent for each and every act … Continue reading Sexual Assault
Religion and Sex
There's been a bit of a rumble lately regarding the place off religion in the bedroom, particularly with BDSM and Domestic Discipline. I'm not about to give a definitive answer because just about the only thing more personal than sex is religion. My thoughts, which are representative of only my thoughts, are as varied on … Continue reading Religion and Sex
Back Support
I've hurt my back. I have no idea how, but I have. Sir has adjusted my rules to accommodate this injury by making me wear a back "brace" until it's healed. By that, I mean a corset. I'm to wear it 24/7 unless showering. I even wear it when I do my exercises. Sir does, … Continue reading Back Support
Feminist Sub
I am a feminist and a submissive. Yes, I believe that a woman has the right, no, the duty to make her own decisions based upon her desires, needs, and abilities. Yes, I believe a woman's voice is just as judicial as a man's. Yes, I believe a woman must and should stand up for … Continue reading Feminist Sub
Orlando
This post, unlike my others, is not fiction and is not meant to entertain. I hope no one is offended, because that is not my intent. I am simply stating my opinion because if I don't, I will explode. My heart, like any other sane person's, is breaking. I have cried for the victims and … Continue reading Orlando