Sexual Assault

This is, as the category states, NON-FICTION. People have asked me why I write BDSM. It's about abuse, right? WRONG.  There are several key aspects of the lifestyle which differentiate it from abuse. First and foremost is consent. Each party consciously, with full knowledge, and with shared expectations, gives consent for each and every act … Continue reading Sexual Assault

Religion and Sex

There's been a bit of a rumble lately regarding the place off religion in the bedroom, particularly with BDSM and Domestic Discipline. I'm not about to give a definitive answer because just about the only thing more personal than sex is religion. My thoughts, which are representative of only my thoughts, are as varied on … Continue reading Religion and Sex

Back Support

I've hurt my back. I have no idea how, but I have. Sir has adjusted my rules to accommodate this injury by making me wear a back "brace" until it's healed. By that, I mean a corset. I'm to wear it 24/7 unless showering. I even wear it when I do my exercises. Sir does, … Continue reading Back Support

Feminist Sub

I am a feminist and a submissive. Yes, I believe that a woman has the right, no, the duty to make her own decisions based upon her desires, needs, and abilities. Yes, I believe a woman's voice is just as judicial as a man's. Yes, I believe a woman must and should stand up for … Continue reading Feminist Sub

Orlando

This post, unlike my others, is not fiction and is not meant to entertain. I hope no one is offended, because that is not my intent. I am simply stating my opinion because if I don't, I will explode. My heart, like any other sane person's, is breaking. I have cried for the victims and … Continue reading Orlando