O was a rough decision to make - O-ring, Orgasm, Oral sex, Obedience, Owned. Still, OTK or Over The Knee, I believe, is at the heart of BDSM. There is simply nothing like the feeling of your dominant pulling you over his knees and swatting your bare ass with his bare hand. To feel his … Continue reading O is for OTK
N is for Negotiation
Fifty Shades got some things right - negotiation was one of them, althought the follow through wasn't quite there IMHO. Negotiation is a term used to explain the discussion before play. These negotiations can be as simple as saying "I like this but I don't like that." to a formal contract clearly defining soft limits, … Continue reading N is for Negotiation
First Reprimand of Summer
So as I mentioned the other day, I broke our first Summer Rules 2018 within hours of establishing them. I Said "Stop" and slapped away Milord's hand when he was tweaking my nipples. I didn't mean to. I didn't even think about it. I was washing dishes and didn't hear him come up behind me. When … Continue reading First Reprimand of Summer
M is for Mental Bondage
BDSM doesn't have to involve ropes, chains, and cuffs. Sometimes, just a word is enough. A long time ago I was mentally in a place where I simply could not stand even the sight of ropes, cuffs, or any other form of physical bondage. We worked our way back slowly. My husband, always creative, slowly … Continue reading M is for Mental Bondage
L is for Limits
So there are hard limits and soft limits in BDSM. A soft limit is a practice where either the submissive or the dominant (Yes, dominants have limits too!!) is willing to attempt but is unsure. The uncertainty might come from having never done it before, the practice being a trigger, health reasons, or fear. Nonetheless, … Continue reading L is for Limits
Summer Rules 2018
Milord loved last summer's rules and, for that matter, so did I. He suggested that this summer we continue with the same basic rules, with just a few little tweaks which I've marked. These rules actually began on Memorial Day and will go until September 21. No bra or underwear unless given specific permission, which … Continue reading Summer Rules 2018
Extended Time for breaking rules
Spring Rules 2018 You guessed it. I screwed up again. Really, it wasn't my fault this time. True, I was cutting it close coming home from my friend Josie's house, but how was I to know that construction the highway started yesterday and I'd be stuck in traffic for over 45 minutes. Sure, I told … Continue reading Extended Time for breaking rules
Snow White – 2
"That's my, Princess," he said. "Before we go, I think I deserve to be thanked." I sighed with pleasure and turned. He already had his cock out of his trousers and my mouth was open. He grabbed my chin, forcing me to look up at him. "Go as deep as you can, Snow, and wrap … Continue reading Snow White – 2
Snow White
I have always loved the story of Snow White. The red, the back, the white. The colors alone are capitivating and mesmerizing which is why when Milord suggested an evening at the Castle, I suggested he be Prince Charming, which he is anyway, and I be his Snow White. I have, after all, very, very … Continue reading Snow White
Submission isn’t and is
Submission isn't about pain about bondage about discomfort. It isn't losing yourself inside of another. It's about loving totally and fully about respect about trust It's about finding yourself in the eyes of another. It's about giving and demanding and receiving and sharing Submission isn't frightening. It's liberating
Anarie Brady 