First Reprimand of Summer

So as I mentioned the other day, I broke our first Summer Rules 2018 within hours of establishing them. I Said "Stop" and slapped away Milord's hand when he was tweaking my nipples. I didn't mean to. I didn't even think about it. I was washing dishes and didn't hear him come up behind me. When … Continue reading First Reprimand of Summer

M is for Mental Bondage

BDSM doesn't have to involve ropes, chains, and cuffs. Sometimes, just a word is enough. A long time ago I was mentally in a place where I simply could not stand even the sight of ropes, cuffs, or any other form of physical bondage. We worked our way back slowly. My husband, always creative, slowly … Continue reading M is for Mental Bondage

L is for Limits

So there are hard limits and soft limits in BDSM.  A soft limit is a practice where either the submissive or the dominant (Yes, dominants have limits too!!) is willing to attempt but is unsure. The uncertainty might come from having never done it before, the practice being a trigger, health reasons, or fear. Nonetheless, … Continue reading L is for Limits

Summer Rules 2018

Milord loved last summer's rules and, for that matter, so did I. He suggested that this summer we continue with the same basic rules, with just a few little tweaks which I've marked. These rules actually began on Memorial Day and will go until September 21. No bra or underwear unless given specific permission, which … Continue reading Summer Rules 2018