Joan:  I Promise to love you and care for you, to always voice my opinions in an honest and respectful manner, to consider your needs above my own, to discuss rather than to argue, to trust in your words and actions. I promise to honor you, respect you, obey you, and love you for the rest of my life.

Paul:  I Promise to love you and care for you, to provide for you, to lead you, to protect you. I promise to consider your needs above my own, to discuss rather than argue, to voice my opinions in an honest and respectful manner. I promise to honor you, respect you, and love you for the rest of my life.