https://anariebrady.com/2016/01/17/so-you-think-you-want-to-be-a-submissive/?page_id=258 I can't believe I wrote this NINE YEARS AGO! Since beginning on this journey of writing BDSM erotic fiction and a bit of nonfiction, I've learned so much. The world has changed in many ways. We are now post Pandemic, although Covid certainly still exists and is still a danger. One of my favorite … Continue reading Nine years later
Non fiction
Apologies for my absence.
I'm terribly sorry for not posting in so long. First, I've been completely unmotivated. Second, I've been unmotivated to write probably because the summer heat and humidity (it's not the heat, it's the humidity! IFKYK) have done a real number on my lungs. Anywho, to my faithful followers and subscribers, I will attempt to be … Continue reading Apologies for my absence.
Neil Gaiman and BDSM
BDSM is about, as the moto goes, safe, sane, consensual play.
Would you rather?
I read this Here: https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/92543148/posts/4725588243 So feel free to add your answers in the comments or your own site. I'd appreciate a link back so folks can keep the chain going and visit the other sites as well! Note: The answers are my own and do not in any way imply anything negative regarding anyone … Continue reading Would you rather?
Outdoor Consequence
"Walk with me," King said. Happily, I slipped into my sneakers and grabbed a sundress. "No, Love. Just the sneakers. We won't be going off property." I bit my lip and set down the dress. I hate this (but secretly love it). I feel so exceedingly vulnerable even though I know King will always protect … Continue reading Outdoor Consequence
Lest we forget – Non Fiction/Personal
Warning: This is post is outright BEGGING for donations to https://act.alz.org/site/TR?pg=personal&px=15054191&fr_id=15681. Trigger warning: an account of caring for a person with dementia/Alzheimer's. My mother died in 2019, March 2, the day after her 70th Anniversary. She didn't remember it had been her anniversary. She didn't remember I was her daughter. She didn't actively remember anything. … Continue reading Lest we forget – Non Fiction/Personal
Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive
You have an almost uncontrollable desire to refer to your significant other (real or imagined) with an honorific rather than his/her name. You derive great personal pleasure from serving others in non-sexual ways (meals, cleaning, transcribing notes, etc.) You fantasize about someone giving you explicit directions on what they expect. You understand well that that … Continue reading Five signs you MIGHT be a submissive
Respect
I've been writing BDSM erotica for over 10 years now, but I've been practicing it for well over 30. My boyfriend, now my husband, and I just fell into it, not really even knowing what we were doing, but definitely knowing that what we were doing felt amazing. All of our adventures, though, hinged on … Continue reading Respect
Why being submissive means being STRONG
People who like to harshly judge what they don't understand often think that being a submissive means being a doormat at best and abused at worse. This could not be further from the truth as pointed out in an article in Psychology Today Rather than being weak, willingly giving up control to another person shows a … Continue reading Why being submissive means being STRONG
Anal Freedom
Anal seems dirty, forbidden, taboo even. It also seems like the ultimate limit of submission - at least for me. I have to admit, in the beginning of our relationship I was terrified, as most people are. However, as time went on, and my Man eased me into this new arena with care, compassion, gentleness, … Continue reading Anal Freedom
Anarie Brady 