L is for Limits

So there are hard limits and soft limits in BDSM.  A soft limit is a practice where either the submissive or the dominant (Yes, dominants have limits too!!) is willing to attempt but is unsure. The uncertainty might come from having never done it before, the practice being a trigger, health reasons, or fear. Nonetheless, … Continue reading L is for Limits

No one Knows our Passion

No one besides a few close friends who share our ideas know. No one who would look at me would know. No one I work with knows. My family doesn't know. I don't want them to know, not because I'm ashamed. I'm not ashamed at all! It's simply no one else's business what goes on between … Continue reading No one Knows our Passion

Long Distance Discipline

Sir is gone, out of the country, but that doesn't mean I serve him less. No, it simply means I serve him differently. I keep an online journal which I must update daily by 8:00 p.m. My rules are still in place, and so I must tell him if I have broken any. I also … Continue reading Long Distance Discipline