I read this Here: https://wordpress.com/read/feeds/92543148/posts/4725588243 So feel free to add your answers in the comments or your own site. I’d appreciate a link back so folks can keep the chain going and visit the other sites as well! Note: The answers are my own and do not in any way imply anything negative regarding anyone else!

Would you rather be spanked outside in a cold woodshed or inside by a cozy fire? Cozy fire! I despise being cold!

Would you rather be spanked in public or in private? Private

Would you rather fantasize about spanking or actually be spanked? Fantasize

Would you rather be spanked for your humiliation or for your spanker’s pleasure? His pleasure

Would you rather be spanked by hand or by hairbrush? Hand.

Would you rather be spanked by belt or by cane? Either, but with great care!

Would you rather be spanked by paddle or riding crop? crop

Would you rather be restrained or unrestrained during your spanking? Both? Start with unrestrained, then if I wiggle waggle too much, restrained.

Would you rather be spanked until you cried or until you are aroused? Aroused!!!

Would you rather have just a red bottom or welts/bruises? Red Bottom. Then again, as a natural redhead (at one time!) I bruise easier than an overripe peach in the August sun, so bruising is most likely going to happen.

Would you rather be spanked for the naughty things you have done or just because you enjoy the experience? Enjoyment.

Would you rather be spanked with pants up/skirt down or pants down/skirt up? DOWN! How can the spanker judge how red my bottom is getting if clothing is in the way?

Would you rather be spanked with panties up or panties down? Down.

Would you rather be spanked somewhat clothed or entirely naked? Naked

Would you rather your spanking be strictly disciplinarian or sexually attractive in nature? Can I have both? Begin as a sexy discipline and then progress to arousal.

Would you rather be spanked by a male or by a female? Male, but if my hubby wants to wants a female spank me, I’d be down with that.

Would you rather be spanked OTK or bent over a table/chair? Depends on the situation.

Would you rather your spanker have physical contact with you? Absolutely.

Would you prefer to be spanked in the woods with a tree branch, bent over the hood of a car, or in a school with a ruler bent over the desk of your teacher/principal? Woods if I was assured of privacy.

Would you rather be a brat to your spanker to deserve a spanking or simply ask your spanker for a spanking because you know you needed it? Ask.

Would you rather be spanked for the physical pleasure or the emotional release? Depends. My first inclination is for physical pleasure, but sometimes when “The world is too much with us”, I need that release.

Would you rather tell your best friends you enjoy be spanked or keep it secret? I like my private life to be private these days.

Would you rather spanking be a lifestyle choice or just something you dabble in? Lifestyle.

Would you rather your lover be a vanilla or a spankoholic too? Definitely a spanko.

Would you rather be spanked by a stranger or by someone who knew you well? Someone I know. That said, if that someone wanted a stranger to spank me, I’d submit.

Would you rather be spanked by despotic, mean person or by a compassionate, benevolent person? Kindness in all things

Would you rather be talked to while you are spanked or no talking at all? If the talking was on topic, talking can be quite erotic.

Would you rather get one swat at a time with pauses to let the sting set in or a continuous tanning to build up the fire? Continuous.

Would you rather be forced into a spanking or willingly submit into a spanking? Willingly submit.

Would you rather have a safe word or be pushed beyond your preconceived limits? Safe Word! I rarely have needed to use it, but I need to know it’s there.

Would you rather your spanker know your spanking history or is ignorance bliss? Know me.

Would you rather be spanked by multiple people at one time or just by one person at one time? As long as my one and only is in charge, the choice is his.

Would you rather be spanked once a day or once every few months? Daily.

Would you rather your spanker be deeply in tune or be totally unaffected to your experience as a spankee? In tune.

Would you rather a closer physical relationship or a closer emotional relationship with your spanker? Since we’ve know each other for most of our lives, both.

Would you rather your spanker ice your bottom down after a spanking or send you to the corner to display his/her accomplishment? I’d prefer being soundly fucked, but if I had to choose, ice.

Would you rather your spanker be the person you wish to live the rest of your life with (i.e. marriage) or the person you can call on when your tushy tickles? Hubby

Would you rather spanking be a part of love making or not a part of love making? Part of love making

Would you rather your spanker have total control over you when you are being spanked or do you still want to have some control while you are being spanked? I relinquish control to him.

Would you rather be humiliated or respected during your spanking?Respected

Would you rather spanking become part of a bigger BDSM alternative lifestyle or spanking just be spanking for spanking sake? As part of the bigger BDSM lifestyle.

Would you rather be filmed during a spanking to share your exhibitionist naughtiness or are you too modest to show your bum to the world? No filming

Would you rather your spanking be gentle and gradual or painful and abrupt? Gradual and building up to not so gentle.

Would you rather be defiant or fearful going into a spanking? Defiant if it’s role play

Would you rather be spanked exclusively in your own bedroom or anyplace else other than your own bedroom? why not make use of the available space!

Would you rather be spanked exclusively on your bottom or other places could be interesting too? The choice is his. I do like mixing things up, though.

Would you rather a spanking be a surprise or be something you have to look forward to? Both! Can I do both, please!!!

Would you rather spanking be a part of role playing kinkiness or a response to events that have happened in reality? Reality. Nothing is sexier that him saying something like “When we get home, I’m going to love spanking you until your ass is scarlet and them fucking you until your head spins around.”