- Speak respectfully – throw a “Sir” or “Mistress” or other honorific into your mundane conversation.
- Dress – Dress in a manner which pleases your Dominant – dresses, dress shirt/slacks, skimpy, no shirt at all.
- Food – either cook or order your Dominant’s favorites. Food is sexy!!!
- Read – read aloud to your Dominant or, read something that is self improving – how to garden, money management, etc. A good sub is a smart sub.
- Foot rub – I don’t trust people who don’t like foot rubs.
- Chores – complete some of your Dominant’s regular chores or take extra care with your own.
- Gift – Buy your Dominant a special gift that doesn’t necessarily relate to sex – a book, tool, new sweater?
- Play music – not necessary yourself unless you are talented in that area, but comprise a new playlist filled with his/her favs.
- Love notes – A seriously forgotten art form! Hand write and decorate a personalized note.
- Hand over the Remote – (This is hard for me!) Sit there and try, try really hard, to enjoy that movie/show/documentary that he/she loves and you hate. The effort will be noted.
Love this! Sometimes it’s easy to forget that it’s the simplest things 🙂
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This is a great reminder of active submission. Thank you 😊
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This reminds me that connecting to/with someone is an attitude, an expression of intent and it takes effort.
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